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A Sista Is Tired…

January 14, 2009 · 9 Comments

So, it’s 5:45, and where I am? Still at work! Why? Because I have so much crap to do it’s crazy and they just keep piling it on. See, I am a contractor, I don’t work for my client, I work for my company. And I guess since the government folks don’t do any work…they give it to us to do. But for real, it’s like my boss doesn’t understand that 1 thing could take days…even if I worked on it without working on anything else. They don’t know anything…they don’t know how to work our software and databases, they don’t know how to work our Sharepoint sites…nothing! So guess what? They ask for stuff and don’t understand the complexity of the task because in their little minds, all I need to do is push a button and out comes this pretty user-friendly report with everything just the way they like it. NOT!

I am tired on several occassion to transfer within the company and my project manager just gives me lip service. Now, don’t get me wrong, I do not have deep feelings for any one job ever. If I am at a job for longer than a year, my friends and family think that’s a miracle…’cause I stick and move… But I want to stick around to be fully vested in my 401K and if they know what’s right for them…my raise should be sweet. But I don’t know how long I can last in this…on Monday I worked almost 12 hours…today it will be close to 9. Thursday isn’t looking too great either.

I have so much stuff to do it’s crazy… I am leading one group, the acting lead of another, a team member on this group, I just got the lead for anther iniatitve. PLUS, i sat in meetings 95% of the day today…how the heck am I supposed to get anything done sitting in meetings?

Then I have the stuff that I really like to do such as my businesses. I am planning a conference in Charlotte and Virginia Beach this year…and I LOVE doing this stuff. But I spend so much time at the JOB, by the time I get around to doing the fun stuff, I do get a second wind…but the next day I am so tired. Plus, I got my Pure Romance kit and I placed another order of stuff and I got it all and I just want to go home and play in it. I love it! I have my first party this Friday! YAY!!! So I am very excited. I will post another entry about the menu later. But I digress. Anyways, a sista is tired. I need to figure out a way to do what I want to do all the time and make a whole lotta money doing it!

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Love, Happiness & The Big O

January 5, 2009 · 10 Comments

My gf is the only person who has ever made me achieve the big O…the only person, period ever.  She is also the only person that I have ever been in love with and ours is the only relationship that is constantly a source of happiness (even though we have our ups and downs).

I don’t understand how people have casual sex, without love and affection sex is nothing for me.   I also don’t understand how people have open relationships.  I mean, I couldn’t take my gf  with anyone else.  Why would people want to share their partners? I guess there are some folks who are cool with that, I could never be one of those people…

But back to the big o…the only other time I have had one is with my handy dandy bullet.  Every woman needs a bullet!  I have had quite a few…I guess I wear them out! LOL.  Which is one of the reasons why I started with Pure Romance..at least I can get them at a discount now!  One of my friends (who is straight) can’t have an orgasm without the bullet…she made her man run out and buy one in the middle of sex since the one she had got a short mid-performance.

At the end of the day, I think all everyone wants is love and happiness (makes me thing of the song).  We all want to be loved, to feel it, to give it.  We all want to be happy.  Everyone goes about it in a different way.  I am happy with my gf, I hope we are together forever.  I am well on my way to being happy in my career.  I used to pursue money…but now I am in hot pursuit of love and happiness (and if money can help then so be it :-)

As much as I don’t want to go to work tomorrow, I have decided to make the most of it since this is only a short term means to a greater end.

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Lesbians Make More Money

October 14, 2008 · Leave a Comment

A study conducted by the University of Maryl and the National Institutes of Health-funded study concluded that lesbians make more money that our hetrosexual counterparts. “Lesbians rake in up to 35% more than heterosexual females, while, on average, gay men earn about 14% less than straight males”.  The study found.

While this seems like promising news, I can only wonder how the fact that many lesbian couples who are denied employer-sponsored benefits that their straight friends enjoy factors in to this equation.   Medical coverage is expensive and if lesbian couples are forced to locate medical insurance on the open market that could erode much of a couples’ income.  I hope as we gain momentum in our fight for equal rights, this becomes a non-issue.  But right now, it is a issue that too many of us are facing.

For the complete story visit:  http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1589/is_/ai_63059683

v/r,

Tami

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