Friday Femme Flick: Reader’s Choice

This Friday, I thought I would ask you for your favorite femme flick!  What have you watched that you loved (or didn’t love so much)?  Inquiring minds want to  know.  I am always looking for a good movie, and I know there is more out there than I know about…   

It’s raining here, so I would love to curl up next to my  gf with a good movie…any suggestions?

Friday Femme Flick: The Women of Brewster Place

I’ve blogged about this movie several times, I find that I just can’t say enough about how great this movie is!  The Women of Brewster Place is a classic!  You have to see it if you haven’t already.  If you’ve seen it before, watch it again!  I saw this movie when I was very young and now I am really starting to understand it and recongnize what a true piece of art this movie is.  It is just a powerful, powerful movie that shows the life, loves and struggles of several inner city women.  Old, young, straight and lesbian they do a very good job and getting to heart of  what women face on a daily basis in order to keep their lives in tact, families together and find themselves in a world that doesn’t always treat them fairly because of what they look like, how much money they have or don’t have or who they love. 

I don’t know what else to say about this movie but buy it, rent it, borrow it, whatever you need to do…just watch it!  I give this moive 5 gold stars!

Friday Femme Flick – The Gymanst

Alrighty, ladies!  Friday’s Femme Flick of the Week is the Gymanst. 
The Gymanst is the story of two women who take their encounters further than their professional affiliation.   The women are extraordinarly strong yet graceful.   I was in awe watching their performances, I still don’t know how they did what they did.  They are not your ordinary gymansts, they performed using a fabric that they wrapped themselves up in and did all types of cool twists and turns all while a good ten feet off the ground.  You just have to see the movie to understand…

The love story was, in my opinion, your typical “oh no, I’m a lesbian” story line that we’ve seen before.  This time, its a married woman who realizes her attraction for her gymanst partner.  They have an affair, and things go from there.  I don’t want to say to much to ruin the movie for those who haven’t seen it.    I do love the diversity present in this story as the love story is between a white woman and an asian woman, and diverstiy on screen is always a plus in my eyes. 

Again, it’s one of those movies that you have time to watch then do so.  If not, it can wait.  Maybe I should start a rating system for these movies.  I would give The Gymanst 3.5/5.0 stars. 

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Friday Femme Flick – The Aggressives

I can’t remember how I came across this movie, but it was a few months ago that I saw this and if anything, I now know what “voguing” is because of this movie. LOL.  The Aggressives is a documentary set in NYC that shows 6 “aggressive” women, their lives and loves.  The most noteable is Kisha Baptista bike messenger/model who allegedley hooked up with Kimora Simmons. 

It really is one of the few movies about black aggressive lesbians.  And if you haven’t seen it, I suggest checking it out in your spare time.  I don’t urge you to run out and get it, but it is very interesting and eye opening.

While I don’t own this movie, I was able to watch it on Amazon’s video on demand for 4 bucks.  Will I purchase this?  Probably not.  Even though my gf mentioned buying it…and while it’s not a bad movie, just not something I can watch over and over again.  This isn’t something that I am crazy to add to my movie collection.

The ending kinda left you hanging, as it would be interesting to know more about what happened to them.  One of the girls who joined the Army could not be found at the end of the movie.   She got deployed to a war zone and apparently wasn’t that aggressive because she fled in order to avoid her tour of duty.   The movie held my interest, and if there was a part 2, I would be most interested in seeing it.

Here’s a the movie overview from Amazon:

In the poor sections of New York City, there is a group of lesbians that is a unique, secret and separate subculture of the lesbian community. They are the aggressives and the subject of this fascinating documentary by Daniel Peddle. Six women of color, twenty-something in age, identify themselves as members of this group. Throughout the film they try to identify who they are but we quickly see, as is usually the case in some subcultures, they have quite a hard time reaching a comprehensive definition. We all realize that no such definition is necessary bur the stories they tell are what that matters.
This is an honest film as it strips these women down to their stories and we, in turn, learn about who they are and if they are members of a certain gender community. Their stories are fascinating and each woman has a unique personality. We learn a great deal about them as they speak.
We follow the lives of Kisha, Marquise, Flo, Tiffany, RJ and Octavia around their neighborhoods and into their bedrooms. We meet their lovers and we go to their clubs and even go to prison with them. They all love the masculine lifestyle and they live by their own rules with no apologies. They proudly bend gender with great strength. The message we get is that they are who they are–they are women who look like men but they maintain that they are, above all, women.
They show us how not to let labels run our lives and that is important for one to be who he/she is and to be comfortable with that. Because the aggressives live outside of the norms of society, they are often misunderstood. This is not a film about women who want to be men–rather it is a film about people who want to be people. It seems to me that all of us compete with each other to a degree and, in affect, this is how we survive.
We see a world we are not familiar with from within and we see the world as a stage upon which we all play a part.

Check out my otherFriday Femme Flicks recommendations here and here.

Friday Femme Flick: If These Walls Could Talk 2

I’m back at it again, with the Friday Femme Flick. This week I watched “If These Walls Could Talk 2″. Is this the first time I’ve seen this movie? No. But it’s the first time I sat and watched entirely. This was a HBO film, so you may be able to catch it on HBO from time to time, but I just bit the bullet and paid a mere $6 from Amazon to own it forever.

I really liked this movie!

It features 3 stories of women from 3 timespans. 1961, 1972 and 2000. The first story was with a lesbian couple who had been together for 50 years and then suddenly an unexpected death of one of the ladies. This movie tugged at my heart so much. It was sad seeing how the surviving partner was treated because she wasn’t “family”. How when her deceased partners’ family came to visit, she took down all of the pictures they had up of them together and moved her stuff out of there room because she didn’t want to be found out. You really just have to watch it to understand, the actresses played the part very well.

The second segment was set in 1972 and told the story of a young feminist who falls head over heels for a boyish girl. Her lesbian friends talked about her and tried make her feel inadequate for feeling the way she felt. Somehow, boyish girls were a slap in the face of the feminist movement. I guess they couldn’t understand why any woman would embrace anything to do with masculinity. Nia Long made an appearance in this movie and she did a pretty good job. It was very interesting to witness discrimination within the lesbian community. You would think that lesbians of all people would understand what it means to just be who you are and that clothes or appearances or who you sleep with does not define your character. This segment really made me think about the facade we all put on in order to “fit in”.

The final segment was very light-hearted and featued Ellen (no last name needed!) and Sharon Stone. They were a lesbian couple determined to have a baby and it showed the typical stuff such as going to a sperm bank, selecting a donor, failed attempts at insemination until finally one of the women gets pregnant. Ellen was funny, as usual. This was a good ending to a movie that had many ups and downs.

Here is the Amazon review:

HBO caused a stir when it aired If These Walls Could Talk, a portrait of three women from three generations (all who occupied the same house at various times) who had unwanted pregnancies. HBO utilizes the same gimmick in the sequel, this time telling the story of women who love women.

The three stories of If These Walls Could Talk 2 are uneven. Far and away the most powerful and moving story is the first, taking place in 1961, starring Vanessa Redgrave as a woman “widowed” when her partner of 50 years suddenly dies. Redgrave is phenomenal, and her piece alone makes this sequel worth watching. The 1972 portion stars Michelle Williams, who finds dealing with the sexual politics of the gay community increasingly more complex when she falls in love with a boyish woman (played by Chloë Sevigny). The most modern piece, taking place in 2000, portrays a contemporary lesbian couple (Sharon Stone and Ellen DeGeneres) determined to have a baby. The light nature of the story detracts from the more serious issues of the earlier segments. Despite the mixed fare, HBO once again proves itself on the cutting edge of moviemaking, with this rather daring film that will both provoke and entertain. –Jenny Brown

To learn more or to purchase, visit my store by clicking here. This movie is just $5.99. It was worth my six bucks.

Friday Femme Flick: Saving Face

With the L-word leaving us forever in just under a month, there is a need not only to replace the L-word (whatever will I do on Sunday’s at 9??) but to seek out more diversity in lesbian films.  So,  each Friday I will post a movie/series/documentary/whatever I find thats good as the “Friday Femme Flick” (I like the use of the triple F. lol). 

I know, I’ve blogged about this movie before, but I really love it and I don’t think it got the respect and recognition it deserves, so once again, I highly recommend Saving Face.  This is a movie about a Chinese-American doctor who lives with her mom.  She comes out to her mom around the same time as her 40+ mom finds herself as a single mother (again).    This is a funny movie, but it made me realize a lot about how we can sometimes judge people too harshly just for being human.  It also is a story about the courage to love despite what people might think or say.

Anywho, please check this film out if you haven’t seen it.  It is REALLY very very good.  Everytime it comes on LOGO, I watch it like I’ve never seen it before!  It also takes place in Flushing, NY (I lived there for about a year), but spent most my life in Hollis. QUEENS, STAND UP!! LOL

Here’s the movie summary:
When 48-year-old widow Hwei-Lan Gao (Joan Chen) informs her less-than understanding father she’s pregnant, he banishes her from Flushing until she remarries or proves Immaculate Conception. With nowhere else to go, Hwei-Lan moves in with her grown daughter, Wil (Michelle Krusiec), a Manhattan doctor who doesn’t want a roommate, especially since she’s met Viv (Lynn Chen), her sexy young lover. So Wil does what any dutiful child with an expectant, unmarried mother on her hands would do: she proceeds to set Hwei-Lan up with every eligible bachelor in town.

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Happy Friday